To make your child more motivated and confident, he or she needs to hear the words: "I believe in you", "You will succeed", "In any difficult situation you can come to me for help". Remember that an interest in learning and good grades are not only your son or daughter's responsibility, but also yours.
Don't have high expectations of the school. Unfortunately, today's education system cannot give children all the knowledge they need. Teachers' workloads do not allow them to give enough time to each pupil. That's why parental involvement is so important. It helps to motivate the child to learn. Only a tandem of school + parents can make a child a truly developed person.
The academic year has started, and the topic of motivating the child to learn rises to the forefront for the parents. Every year in schools, requirements for students increase, the program becomes more complex, the number of circles and additional classes increases, and everywhere you want to catch up. But the child does not want all this stress. He or she wants to do the things that interest him or her, to learn about the world with pleasure, without compulsion and the pursuit of high grades.
The main ways of motivating a child to learn
Why do children not want to learn? There is no clear answer to this question, even from experienced teachers. But you can see exactly where this reluctance manifests itself: the child forgets what he has been given, doesn't do his homework, and his school things are a mess. In the classroom, he or she has his or her head in the clouds and does anything but study. Most of the time they don't even care about their grades.
Set a good example.
Tell your son or daughter that you are just as hard at work as he or she is at school. If your child tells you about his problems and failures, try not just to listen to him, but to draw parallels with your work and how you find ways out of different difficult situations.