I'm Mistress Lily and I'm into all things findom. I want to own you, play with you, and be served by you.
I started visiting sex clubs and fetish parties in my early 20s. My love of domination and control was immediately realized. I was initially attracted to flogging and any impact play sessions, and I expanded from there. I've had a lot of great years in the scene. Unfortunately, my current city just doesn't have the community I'm used to, or at least I haven’t found my people yet. I still have a few loyal IRL subs, but I felt I needed to move online to connect with others in the ways I truly enjoy.
I'm VERY into ethical BDSM with a focus on aftercare. This was always import in impact play and humiliation. I'm also interested in fulfilling most fantasies. Hard limits are age play, race play, blood play, scat play, and Roman showers. I will also not engage in public play if It results in a member of the public witnessing something they did not consent to.
I feel that my appeal is how genuine and intelligent I am. I'm not in this because I heard from some article that findom is a way to get rich quickly with no effort. I have the experience and professionalism to know better.
I am passionate about domination. I truly enjoy the devotion of my subs and the pride I earn when I make them better people through all aspects of their lives via domination. I believe in mutual respect and relationship building. TPE is not synonymous with disrespect. Subs must be taken care of on an emotional level for so many important reasons.
I also take research seriously if any subs express an interest in a kink I’m not experienced with. This helps further trust, safety, and the assurance that your experiences with me are personal. There will always be one off sessions of course, I can’t own everyone 😉